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2 weeks ago
Sounds like a very good idea using your downtime to make your broadcast/room/setup better 👍
I do not know where to begin however here goes...

A little over 24 hours ago I woke up at 1:30 in the afternoon after having a great weekend I thought and I got some sleep my hashtags read when I use them to make a sentence gay teddy bear party toy RP Vampire Lovense When you're welcomed into my room the first thing you see is Chaos & Seduction w Drake DVamp all Requests 25 tokens or more just no feet no expections. want my attention tip me I will come running!!!

I never in my would purposely do something to put my account and here comes the kicker!!! THAT I PAY TO USE CHATURBATE EACH MONTH WITH A MEMBERSHIP TO BROADCAST AS A SUPPORTER STATUS!!!!! so I omce I after hours of not being on line after 130 pm when I got up I had real life responsibilties to do when went to log on and seen the ban I immediately contacted support to find out what was going on more than 24 hours ago and have not received a reply so here's the fact of the matter is I have direct email to someone in support who I've turned to over the years Since my mentor the man who had given me her email address when he was having problems here and I needed someone to back him up or validate his situation I have been friends with him now going on 7 years maybe even longer now however he's no longer on these sites because he's been removed from every platform because of haters. And of discussion on that one however The support person that in contact with Neither was away from her desk so I waited and waited more than 24 hours I'm sorry just like everybody else we all get the Zendesk bullshit an automated message Well I'm sorry I pay for my membership And a few years back there was a situation that my bank shut down my card because there was fraudulent charges on it and in an accident that the bank didn't know what MMM bill was stop payment on it until it was figured out and I had to pay back 1250 tokens And that during that time I did not have that kind of money to repay them So it took me awhile because those tokens came back from those those models that I tipped out and they weren't getting paid So what do I do now What did I do tonight I contacted not only the contact that I have I contacted support my connection and support I had contacted billing What am I gonna do next tomorrow morning I'm going to contact my bank Why because the this month alone it's the 23rd on October do I paid for my membership for the month services are not rendered so why should they get paid if I can't use my account my bank will definitely go to battle for me they have before and if I can't use my account why should you keep my money We'll see what happens And then I'll ask for every month's payment for the last six or seven years how about that if I inadvertently left a device out or was seen doing something that I wasn't supposed to be doing is one thing however my room's been locked I went to bed and the only people who have access to my room are those with the password most times and if I was asleep in bed and my room is still running then why didn't you shut down automatically I don't know I don't have the answers why because support will not answer me in a timely manner how much time do I need to know what's going on Listen I'm retired I'm 57 years old i'm handicapped and I come here not only to enjoy myself however to give the tokens that I pay for away however including the ones that I earn away and I have never taken a payment from Chaturbate.com only once !!!! And the fact of the matter is I have the records to prove it Then you just go search my account and go through the records themselves i've never cashed out on on on their account never on their site except for once when I first started here as a broadcaster they took my original account because there was a young man behind me as you're hanging out with me one night who fell asleep behind my chair on the floor because he was over 21 and didn't have a valid ID I lost my account and they kept the token said I earned that night or had my tip my tip jar and I never got them either to have to create another account and that account was banned why because of the bank flagging it for fraud and I had to pay those tokens back as they held my account hostage until I did and now this moment other bank that I paid for services and I never I rendered which is true I paid for my supporter status and I'm sorry to say I didn't get my 200 tokens And if I did and I spent them well my money back why 'cause I'm I'm not a happy customer sorry And you're gonna tell me on another site I can't use my ID that I'm verified on'cause I'm not allowed to use I'm not allowed to use the site this site but approved my ID


and to me its not about the money its abotu the friendships I have made here and the fact that I give more out than I get back and I do it because I can and sometimes I give so much more that I leave myself short and I have to go without so others have what they need to support themselves and their familys. I am sick I am not going to be here on this earth very much longer. I help the the new guys when they come here so that they don't get themselves caught up. I help with suggestions however. If I had done it and I was live on cam its one thing or C2C where they watch your privates so yes boys and girlw the platform can see you in privates CAM 2 Cam and if you do not answer site warning fast enough independant models work just as hard and studio models
am proud to be a chaturbste Supporter/ Model i made great friendships here lasting onse as well the bank will fight for me so those of you who know me know that this really does upset me I follow 500 people and feed 500 men tokens as best i can ... if got them they got them.. so wish me luck



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So I was looking around and saw this https://www.amazon.com/Suction-Adapter-Vac-U-Lock-Connector-Attachment/dp/B0B56RTN4Y

Is this compatible with the Lovense Mini Sex Machine? If it's not, where can I get an attachment like this that is compatible?

Because I have dildos I like that do have a suction cup base, meaning with an attachment like this is I could actually use the sex machine.

I know "vac-u-lock" dildos work with it. However, I visited 6 sex shops this weekend and only 1 had a single "vac-u-lock" dildo, and the thing was HUGE! Needless to say, a "vac-u-lock" dildo isn't going to be something I can get. The two you can buy from lovense are not going to work at all.

So I am going to need to be able to use the dildos I already own.

Which brings us back to the suction cup adapter base, and if it is compatible with the lovense mini sex machine?
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CAM4.COM
Level 12
4 weeks ago
The platforms generally have tech support and should be able to help you diagnose if its an obs issue, internet or a site issue.
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CAM4.COM
Level 12
4 weeks ago
I speak often about creators having online fatigue. Its very real. Camming is a big highs and big lows and it can be very mentally exhausting. The best advice I have is to reorganize your shows. Get newly excited about new things within your shows, maybe try a new platform, and of course self care! Make sure you are putting your devices down and focusing on making yourself happy and healthy. ❤️ - Coach Vanna
camillacassidy
Level 10
2 months ago
believe me i am in the same boat it is very frustrating lately your not alone !! what i have to do is use a diffuser with an essential oil blend that keeps me in a positive headspace and if it gets to be too much then i get offline and take an hour break or so and go back at it . Hope this helps with the headspace part as far as getting them to tip again i think when girls stop being "competitive " by giving everything away for basement prices then the men will come back and tip . Right now it feels like they wait us out , they know we are all on here to make money and at some point in the stream we will do stuff to "bring ppl in " the prob is this just creates more freeloaders!! Girls need to stop doing it
Nicole7292
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1 month ago
Truth!!
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CAM4.COM
Level 12
4 weeks ago
Multi streaming is not for everyone or every content type. You either win or lose at multi streaming. Is there a way that you can reach out to the platform for help with possible promotion?
Mrstxoxo4594
Level 5
1 month ago
Start muti streaming girl why not make more money you double off not tripping you money I work on 5 states 3 at a time.. sometimes more & I run an OF account to. The more you get yourself out there the beget girly
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Mrstxoxo4594
Level 5
1 month ago
On some websites yes on CB no on strip yes and idk about any others
naked
replied to Mrstxoxo4594:
1 month ago
谢谢
2 months ago
I believe you should contact Stripchat support and explain the situation...
naked
replied to DarjaLovense:
1 month ago
Thanks
I honestly could just use some commiseration. About anything. Lol

Anyone else ever have a regular/long term client get super weird on them outta nowhere to the point you might have to cut contact/grey rock up?

And then it discourages you from bonding with anyone new cos you're trying to avoid the "wEiRd" connection from happening again?

Might just be my opinion but I don't think people go into this job cos they're unlikable and rude people. Ha. Its not weird people end up liking a cam model or admiring them or even a reasonable crush seems okay to me..

Obviously its very natural to grow fond of someone you interact with virtually & socially especially when it goes into the sexual realm but there's a space between reality and cam. That boundary is important to keep up for yourself/myself. I expect the people I interact with will have terrible boundaries with this and keep my guard UP so its rare this happens but it is def happening and I'm bummed about it.

I love this job but legit can't get over how disappointing it is when people who are fun to interact with lose the plot and one-sidedly sabotage the relationship by getting creepy.

Bonus Points: if they said they fell in love with you/wanted a 'real' relationship/kept insisting to meet. What a buzzkill. And yes, the two latter ones are blockable offenses for me. I don't have time to explain to a guy in the UK why saying we should meet is at best ridiculous and at worst creepy as hell.

as a note: I do believe its possible to fall in love with someone over the internet, but not when its with their cam persona/web presence/curated reality.

RANTS about how clients romanticize the cam model experience/think they know the REAL you:

1) The rude/bad boundary/delusional? guys really think we just sit around what? weather watching? besides showing off for them? that we're all just WAITING for the RIGHT GUY to come into our chat to sweep us away and then we'll work at Target?? Cue the opening credits of pretty woman. FML. I'm over it.

2)I am NOT my cam persona. This is my job. I perform very naturalistically most of the time and consider my cam persona my personality and interests but BOOSTED... but no, I am not just the horniest dude you've ever met 24/7 and no I am not wowed constantly by your presence.

Anyway, thanks for reading. Feel free to rant about whatever in the comments cos I def could use a lil rant fest. Hope u have a good stream and make all the tips! <3

TLDR; cam clients get weird about love and relationships and mess up a good thing and its not your or my fault people have bad boundaries. Upholding boundaries is burn-out prevention and self-protection! I am def close to burn out and doing my best to not get super jaded so please lmk it is NOT just me! Thanks!
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Mrstxoxo4594
Level 5
2 months ago
Girl I loved reading this all my fans hey weird say they love me abs such. Such a buzz all
2 months ago
Thanks for sharing. I think many in the industry would agree with this. Many users get lost in feelings for people thare are presented to them. Cam models are experts in selling their image and personality masking it to match users desires. But there must be a balance and it's often in the model's hands, unfortunately.

Please take care of yourself dear, it looks like you went through a lot ❤️
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dakta
Level 2
3 months ago
Did you perform the speedtest from Chaturbate?
It only uses the chaturbate video servers that are the closest to you so you will have an accurate representationon your upload and download speeds when using the site.
The more site you stream on the more bandwith you need, that can be the cause of your lag.
Now when streaming on multiple websites, when your internet speed isn't too good you can reduce the frame rate of each site in your OBS.
The lower the frame rate, the less speed you need.
3 months ago
You want to make sure that you don't have any back up, anti virus, or cloud drive software running while you stream. Those seem to cause the biggest issues.
Lorum
Moderator replied to 2h0rny4u:
3 months ago
From your other reply, it sounds like its something to do with your new connection. Likely a setting that needs to be changed. It might be the local buffer/cache on the cable modem. If so, turn it off.
Lorum
Moderator replied to 2h0rny4u:
3 months ago
Can you plug directly into your cable modem? If so, does that solve the issue?
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Greenbad1
Level 21
3 months ago
On Stripchat? It’s in the settings drop down
3 months ago
Can you give any more details please?
Site, application, etc.
Daryl.Rose
Moderator replied to Tricia:
3 months ago
Thank you
Tricia
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3 months ago
I’m not on Strip Chat so that didn’t help.
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3 months ago
OBS is built into StreamMaster. If you don't have OBS (or some other streaming software) there will be no video.
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Mrstxoxo4594
Level 5
2 months ago
I highly suggest you pick up more than one site what it going ro Hurt I stream in 4 sites... how do you hey pull in room room on camsoda I cant get any viewers I do.all.my tricks dancing moving sexy all that good stuff but no one comes maybe it's because I'm new?? Sos
JoystickTV
Level 8
4 months ago
We allow multi-streaming on JoystickTV.
Hydro-BlastZ
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3 months ago
I absolutely love joystick its probably my favorite platform the onky downside is I have to send two streams out bc shine doesn't support joystick atleast not yet. Joystick requires one stream them one stream to shine witch sends it out to the rest. Witch in turns means I need atleast two chat boxes bc lovense chat box is absolutely garbage I apologize for recommending it. If all you wanna do is read your messages then its great and if u like losing money do to not seeeing menu items are private request its the one for you. Id love to see joystick on shines services. I dont even really use the gush anymore bc its the only reason I need to use lovense chat. Its a sacrifice im willing to make. #lovense plz fix your shit id love to use the chatbix lots of great features but the two that mater have never worked right for me in the past 6 months
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LadyNeko
Level 13
3 weeks ago
Still looking for help with this. Sure, there are a few sites for selling photos, but I am finding nothing at all for actual physical items. You can't even make your own store website, because so many payment companies are "sex work is bad".

I have items people want to buy, but I have nowhere to sell them.
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4 months ago
I've travelled with sex toys before, never a problem.
I would recomend taking them in hold luggage though, as having your carry on bag searched in front of others can be quite interesting if you don't 🤣🫣

Also please check destination or transit country regs, some places are very particular about what they allow.
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CAM4.COM
Level 12
4 months ago
So sorry to hear that you were having some issues. I do hope that this is ironed out now. If not, feel free to email [email protected] for any payment issues. Our support staff replies rather quickly with results.
UntamedGuy
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4 months ago
It took approximately 10 days, but it was eventually resolved. Thanks.
5 months ago
Fortunately not (for not having the same problem)

And welcome to cam101 x