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So i met a person in my room. And he kept using the name Jeff and making new accounts with that name and started buying my toys from lovense and encouraged me to use them especially online. Often tipped for control and every single day he made a new account and deleted it. Then one day I got a window pop up on stripchat appearing to be from lovense and asked if I wanted to accept a new pattern, it looked professional and I know the site tests things once in a while, now this person could make his own patterns and unique functions on the toys with certain tips in the room. And after I contacted stripchat and they said they didn't know anything about this beyond the normal custom patterns. Then he started talking about lovense more and vibemate and seemed to know a lot about the industry.. eventually I gave him my WhatsApp and eventually started asking me to meet, I refused, but this person had mailed me things and had my phone number, he would call and stuff... and now in the chat he became really aggressive and insulting people in the room, tipping well but really disruptive. I used to have really good numbers in room but after this they dropped, a lot. I noticed him in other rooms and noticed they have a lot of users too when he's around... so anyway time goes on, he stops appearing as much but then the other day I contacted lovense about something else but now he reappears and he's back in my room today and my numbers are really fluctuating a lot the whole time he's there... and he can still tip the patterns so eventually I ban him and my numbers stabilize... now I'm worried I have something embedded. Is this person a hacker? A stripchat admin or lovense employee? I don't know.. but all this added up makes sense that something is going on, and I'm worried. This is my income and I don't want this trouble or hassle, I just want to work and earn and be left alone... be careful out there i guess, right? I don't know if he works with one of the sites, is powerful, stalker, or is messing with my users or room. I have screenshots and calls missed and things i wont post here... I don't want to be in this situation just because I'm refusing to meet.... i wonder if this sounds familiar to anyone else out there? Just be careful out there all and would love to hear from someone who could reassure me since if this person works for one of these places i cant really rely on them to help so posting here public anonymously hoping someone can relate or help stop this i would love to hear from someone here or maybe someone from the site as I don't want to really go through the regular channels as I don't know who he may work for, as I said I've documented everything but don't know what if anything I can or should do. Well thats my story, i hope everything ends up ok and things return to normal thats all i really want... would love to be contacted by someone from lovense or stripchat privately as well as I'm worried I may have something dangerous embedded in my channel or site or this may be a hacker... thank you!
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3 weeks ago
This sounds aweful... I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. Lovense never contacts any model via camsite. We would use either email or send out invitations for the models to contact us instead... We do however always advise models to be careful with trusting anyone, specially comunicating in non conventional ways (lovense.com email). Hopefully your situation gets sorted, and to ban this person was the right thing to do.

Best luck to you, and please be careful out there
Greenbad1
Level 21
3 weeks ago
Try getting a screen grab of the guy and do an image search to try to find out who he is. Be very careful though.
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ruslana
Level 43
1 month ago
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2 months ago
Reddit can be great to get exposure and they allow NSFW content. You'll want to post to as many subreddit's as you can to get the maximum exposure. Responding to comments also helps.
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ruslana
Level 43
2 months ago
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2 months ago
congratulations! ❤️
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2 months ago
In the immortal words of Monty Python.... RUN AWAY!!!!
2 months ago
Hi 22Holly44, yes this can be a common scam.
As you say they are not asking for any info "at the moment", be very wary!
Daryl.Rose
Moderator replied to 22Holly44:
2 months ago
You're most welcome xx
22Holly44
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2 months ago
Thanks.
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RexLeonum
Level 23
2 months ago
Hey! If you're in the U.S. and getting that "location restricted" message on Chaturbate, it might be because of a VPN, proxy, or your IP showing a different location. Try turning off any VPN, clear your browser cache/cookies, and maybe restart your router. You can also check your IP location at iplocation.net just to see where it thinks you are. If nothing works, probably best to hit up their support. Hope that helps
Hali6969
Level 5
2 months ago
its telling me location restricted
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2 months ago
What type of shows do you do? What's your audience? If you do more stroker shows? More anal? The Hush is nice. The Ridge is also good, especially the rotation, but can be a bit big for some.
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ScarletPanes
Level 4
2 months ago
Update, had a random free 30 second control link request come through while I was live after I posted this. I still have no way of setting up how many control links per month I want to give out.
ScarletPanes
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2 months ago
Thank you but the main issue is that I don't get the promotion icons in my widget so I can't get to setting it up.
Cam101 Official
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2 months ago
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2 months ago
The Chrome Browser, browser plugin, connect, and OBS rolled together are "StreamMaster". They can't really be updated independently of each other. When you install StreamMaster you get all of them together and they're preset up to work together.
2 months ago
Please contact Lovense Tech Support on http://lovense.com/contact
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MindySueLove
Level 17
2 months ago
Thank you for sharing
TopsyWilde
Level 23
2 months ago
Looks interesting
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ruslana
Level 43
3 months ago
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