New Cam Girl How To Not Be Shy

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CassieRosse

Level 3

3 years ago

#New member #Help/Advice New Cam Girl How To Not Be Shy

Hey there! I've been camming for months now, and I have a good income and audience. But there is a HUGE peeve of mine : I think it's weird to see myself naked on camera, so I usually wear underwear or a T-shirt to make me feel comfortable. But I see a lot of people saying that I'm shy and not proactive enough. Maybe I shouldn't wear so much... But It was really hard for me to adjust .
Do you have any advice on how to relax and not be so shy and stiff? I really want to relax and treat it as a fun time and enjoy it rather than stress.

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NikaGOT

Moderator

Level 12

3 years ago

Hello. Do what you like on camera. If you feel confident in underwear or in a T-shirt - do it. Let them say what they want - treat it exactly. I have been broadcasting for 5 years and always in clothes, rarely in underwear - I feel so comfortable

CassieRosse

replied to NikaGOT:

3 years ago

Wow, 5 years is so amazing! I really appreciate that the people like you willing to give some advices to the new girls like me, It means a lot.
I'm worried that if keep myself wear clothes is getting people off and I can't get tips. Because when I'm naked, people will pouring in....It makes me so hestiant.
And can I ask you one more question? What do you usually do in your room, as a non-naked cam girl.
Thank you for your help though much appreciated 😊❤️

NikaGOT

Moderator replied to CassieRosse:

3 years ago

I tease, play, chat with guests. If you do not set one goal, that you came for a tip, then you can create your own atmosphere. ;)

Bladdley !

Moderator

Level 18

3 years ago

hi dear ! i have 4 years broadcasting and my best advice is transmitted as you feel more comfortable there is no stereotype to transmit, I personally do not use lingerie I like it more normal clothes always look for your comfort and if you are comfortable things flow in the best way ♥

CassieRosse

replied to Bladdley !:

3 years ago

Thanks for your advice! I'm really curious how you guys able to cam for so many years. Although I've only been camming for a few months, I find it hard to stay energy and I'm feel bored already, I feel like I just repeating the same thing every time to anyone who come into my room. I have tried to chat with viewers and ask them easy questions like "What interesting thing happened to you today?" but they just keep silent. So all I could do was repeat like a dead fish...

Bladdley !

Moderator replied to CassieRosse:

3 years ago

Be patient imagines this as a social network and you need to gain active audience, Keep the same connection scheduleAt least 5 hours a day, sometimes it is by schedule I for example, I'm going better it's at night,of day I do not have the same result.

PrettieKate

Moderator

Level 11

3 years ago

The world of webcams is very large and diverse) if it's uncomfortable for you to see yourself naked, then you don't have to undress completely and sit for so long, you can tease, cover up and it will be very erotic. Sometimes interesting clothes and the way you present yourself - that's what's important. If you don't want to undress, then you don't need to torture yourself, because then no one will enjoy in your room either. But you have to understand that if you don't undress, then you need to develop other areas, you need to do special show dances, special outfits, maybe cosplay.

maggie._.14

Level 5

3 years ago

I sometime wear a towel on cam, and people will say "Don't be shy, take it off!" . I'm not shy! I need money! If they want to see, TIPS. These people will always try to lure you into doing anything for free. Don't let them. You have bills.
Hope more experienced girls can help you more!

Sammy Andrews

Level 4

3 years ago

I sometimes wear long sleeves to cover a tattoo on my arm but besides that, I had the same problem as you. I don't especially love seeing myself on camera.

I use OBS software for streaming. Basically, I set it up, click "start streaming" and then go to the website I'm streaming on. That way, I don't have to look at myself (because the software is in a different window).

Generally speaking, if people want you to do something you're not comfortable with, you can say no. Another idea is a tips menu where you can show people all of the things that you are willing to do and then that kinda imposes some boundaries.

I don't have the experience that other people do so feel free to ignore my advice but this works for me.