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EmAzing

Level 6

12 months ago

#Help/Advice Lets Talk PM's

Okay, how do y'all deal with PM's on Chaturbate? it can seriously be distracting and overwhelming. is there a way in the settings to adjust how many messages they can send after they tip for PM? seems like they can come back to any show after they have tipped for PM and go right into PM'ing me again without tipping for it again. maybe I'm just confused about how it all works. any advice on how to manage this would be appreciated.. Thanks All 🫶🏼🫶🏼

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Sissylucylove

Level 14

12 months ago

I understand exactly what you mean.

I used to have pm requests for 20 tokens I was at the beginning and for me, 20 tokens were like gold given from the gods.

now, the more i streamed i realize that honestly pms (at least for the kind of show I do) is just a waste of time!
i rather focus on the main chat than actually talk with one person who thinks he is entitled to my attention because he gave me 0.10 cents. probably making me lose so many opportunities.

it's all about how you set your show. remember You are in charge always! dont let them control you or overwhelm you. Communication is the KEY! set your boundaries, and nobody says that they can change when you feel to. of course using common sense 😅 eheh

now my guests know exactly what to expect about PMS and when someone asks for it I will see people saying "She doesn't take pm feel free to talk in main chat" and then sometimes I add, "i will not take money for pm, I will read what you have to say if you want to say something privately, but do not expect an instant replay or expect me to reply to you using my voice as my attention is now on all of my guests."

I understand, at the beginning is not easy to manage this, it takes time and a certain confidence that comes with constant dealing with beggars and h*orny people that are not using their brains in those moments😂 you will get there! 🙂

EmAzing

replied to Sissylucylove:

12 months ago

Thank you so much for this!
As me being brand new 😂 I guess I didn’t know if not doing PM’s would be detrimental to people staying in my room or coming back. In all reality they can put their “dirty” talk in a tip note. But I don’t want to spend my time with all that distraction.
I agree with you. It’s not worth the pennies they are throwing at it. 😂
I think I am going to take the same stance as you. Again THANK YOU so much for your advice. 🫶🏼