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RaquelleRyder

Level 7

11 months ago

#Help/Advice Silent watchers and NO tipping

Hi,
This is my 4th week on Stripchat and it's been yuck.
How do you cope with the people who just sit there watching and do not interact?
I had three guys who sat there for at least an hour, some went and came back, one stayed and only lefty when I said I was going offline in 15mins and wished them all a good day.
- I smiled
- I chatted
- I looked good
- I flirty danced to songs I liked
- I played with a toy half off half on screen

One guy paid for a PM and then just asked question after question after to question, I patiently answered even though think he was wanking, he stopped chatting when he asked me take my skirt off and I politely suggested the tip menu or we have fun in a private.

Another guy asked if I'd do an exclusive for 8 tokens when I have set at 24.

Any advice would be really appreciated.I don't know what I'm doing, I feel like such a loser. I really enjoy it and I have some great days, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong :(
Thanks heaps

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Lorum

Moderator

Level 54

11 months ago

Sorry it's been so yucky! Don't give up...it happens.

Welcome. I suggest checking out the "Getting Started" and “Courses” sections at the top of the page. Feel free to ask questions here or on our Discord server. I'd also suggest checking out the CamGirlProblems Discord, specifically the StripChat channel to ask about issues with StripChat. You'll want to come up with a schedule and stick with it so that your fans can find you...helping to prevent rando's from just hanging there. Use social media and lots of hashtags to help get your name out so that people can find you (you'll also want to use #stripchat). You'll also want to kick people who are just sitting there not tipping. And for people who want to PM....get the money first.

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RaquelleRyder

replied to Lorum:

11 months ago

Thank you so so so much for your reply Lorum, I really appreciate it :)
I've been working my way through the courses and they are great and helpful.

I know this question is a bit daft, so sorry, I see that heaps of people have snapchat, whatsapp and insta as options and charge accordingly and the guys have been asking me for it...... I just don't know the parameters and can't find the info.
Is this just another way for the customers to message and send pics etc? The amounts that people charge....are they forever and ever or for set amounts of time? and how much contact is kind of normal? A couple of messages a day or heaps?
I'm stuck on how you seperate your cam persona account from your personal accounts especially since they are based around a phone number? I use WhatsApp heaps and it has all my personal deets on it and I'm just confused.
If you could please steer me in the right direction I'd be grateful, there is so much to learn all at once when you start it's pretty overwhelming. Have. a great day 😇

Lorum

Moderator replied to RaquelleRyder:

11 months ago

These are great questions! I should have sent you the link to a guide I wrote that covers all of that. Chatting on various platforms is fine...but you want to separate your cam persona from your real life to protect yourself. Read the link below and hit me up if you have any other questions (there are lots of links in the guide too).

Security Guide
https://www.camgirlcollective.com/Lorum/?view=blog#1130

RaquelleRyder

replied to Lorum:

11 months ago

Thanks once again Lorum, you have honestly been THE MOST HELPFUL (sorry for the yelling letters but they are sent with yelling love) person I have come across so far in my search for knowledge and answers to my questions. Total legend, I really appreciate your time. RR xx

Lorum

Moderator replied to RaquelleRyder:

11 months ago

THANK YOU FOR THE COMPLEMENTS!!! Let me know if there's something that is missing from the guide or if you have more questions.