I dont feel very empowered anymore

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Cinnamonraine

Level 5

2 weeks ago

#Help/Advice I dont feel very empowered anymore

Ok so. I have been trying every which way to get this this to look even remotely ok for other ppl to see but i dunno i dont feel very empowered anymore i deel kinda stupid and fat and ugly and every other horrible self esteem hitting emotion you can imagine so tell me how to get over it please i dont kno exactly why or what happened but nothing is looking good about me or my angles or my clothes or my body and my camera positions are and my lighting is just stupid and awful and im kinda whinny about it bc ive never had these kinda problems before with modelling but its has been years since i was actively modeling, i watched a lot of other girls and i cant seem to make it and to top it off i cant enjoy any of it at all feeling like this certainly cant get off either until i can figure out what im doing oh so very very wrong, i need like a little guidance please

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Lorum

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Level 57

1 week ago

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Tillymarie

replied to Lorum:

1 week ago

Hey my love! I am sorry you're going through this. I have also felt this way when I started camming myself. I am a bbw model and It took me some time to grow a fanbase! In my perception, viewers likes a genuine model! Someone that can be themselves and comfortable in their own body. We are all unique in our own way. Refrain from comparing yourself from other models! You are doing an amazing job, my love. Don't ever doubt yourself! if you ever feel you need a friend, I am your girl.

Thanks for sharing! that was really brave of you!! Don't ever think you're less than what you are. YOU ARE ENOUGH!! EMBRACE your curves!!

Imperfectly You

Level 6

1 week ago

Hi Cinnamon,

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s important to remember that we all go through times like this, so you’re definitely not alone—I’ve been there myself. We actually talked about this exact topic on our platform recently, and we have a video where our members share tips on how to embrace and love our bodies, especially in an industry that can feel quite pressurizing.

Some of the things we discussed include focusing on the things we love about ourselves, establishing uplifting routines before going on cam—like playing your favorite music to boost your confidence—and reminding ourselves that we’re unique. You’re never in competition with anyone else because no one else can be you, and that’s your superpower. Lots of love! x